failed? why failed?

Short Answer: Because real life is full of failure. 

Hello. I’m El.

I’m a control freak.

And I am a perfectionist. A recovering perfectionist.

I get caught up in the details, and can become devastated when something silly goes awry.  I discovered ….

On the journey of love and life, we focus so much on the success of things and so frequently write off failure.  But I’m celebrating the failed adventures.  They are far more intriguing than successful ones(and perhaps are the secrets of most successful people and great loves). I am celebrating failure in its most beautiful, unpredictable, broken mess.  I am telling true stories that couldn’t have happened without masterful mistakes and unprecedented failure.  And I am doing my best to keep my head above water and my love steady.

Enjoy these stories of life and love and the confounding variables that make everything interesting. And frustrating.